Love: the trap

 Love transformed into trap at the moment , when you sacrifice your willingness to do anything. 

Love transformed into a trap when u care too much without even thinking limits.

Love transformed into a trap ,when u stop loving yourself.

Love transformed into a trap, when you are only caring for others.

why black is good

Black is my favorite as its the darkest color.. In some respect it is not good.. But from my point of view no other color can effect it..so I love this true color. People are wearing a variety of masks now a days, to protect themselves and others not only from the viruses but also from their real faces. And I believe for some the real face is beautiful while for some its ugly. But I love the trend of wearing masks and protecting myself from the scary faces.

Critics are important without them success is impossible. There was a time when wearing goggles changes our view to see the world. Now its a mask time, where we have to be more aware of the masks and see the world with open eyes.

parenting dilemma

At one moment I feel so grateful for my kids, grateful for their love and care. I like spending 24*7 with them. I love cooking for them, I love cleaning for them. I love teaching them. 

But the next moment I feel trapped in their love and here starts another side of a mother who wants  to raise a happy, heathy and independent child. 

I feel like an amateur learning human behavior through my kid.  

I realized they only need my attention, care and love which is nowhere related to my success or defeat.

My career is secondary, my happiness starts with them. Indira Nui once said, your kids should not be the most important in your life. Still struggling to understand this statement. 

from writers world, jaya shukla

The feeling when u r in sky, above the troposphere, and suddenly when u r landing in your country, the goosebumps, the happiness and the excitement to meet your loved ones as early as possible..is completely incomparable to any happiness and success i feel. Happiness just starts rolling from my eyes. Its been more than an year, but this pic is enough to make me emotional about the journey..

Moms Diary , Proud Mom

 My son told me today, he likes me when I am singing,painting, dancing and cooking. It was a common coversation and I realised how responsibilities changed me. There was a time when I love doing all fun filled activities. Playing in mud was also fun. How circumstances and priorities change over years. Kids love the best form of ourselves, their thoughts and observations are so true. We all want to be the best mumma and its so simple and easy . Just live the best version of yourself. 

Sometimes I still found myself puzzled with my 8 years old . My parenting is right or wrong . But the only result was I am learning everyday, to do my best.

mommies diary

 when my kids r awake..i am completely busy in their work, 

when my kids r sleeping,,i m busy in their thoughts. 

i salute to all working moms..who r managing the career as well as their family..

i  feel..the thoughts of all mothers r the same.only the way they r managing is different..

CORONA FEAR

I was watching an old movie and my 3 years old daughter asked me why they are not wearing  masks. It was a very normal question and the answer was also simple. But to my surprise she has the answer, because there was no corona. Everyday corona fear and corona news are killing us. But it has the same frustrating effect on kids. Although they are fearless but they have to limit themselves at the time when outing is the only fun they can have. 

corona kaal

The best and the worst days are here.

More and more time we have to identify the passion in ourself.

Lets give a chance to ourselves. To learn more and more..

To connect with our innerselves. 

No doubt things will change, may be after an year or two. But time never repeats.

our thoughts

our thoughts change with time..with situations..with every moment..
what i believe these thoughts only make us..
its upto us how to create and change these thoughts..
since 2020 begins with a pandemic..
we still dont know whats going on and what will happen..
but now the positivity and hope is in the air..
which is building us..more and more strong

FATHERS DAY SPECIAL

उंगली पकड़ जिसने चलना सिखाया
सही गलत राह का फर्क दिखाया
हर मुश्किल को आसान बनाया
अधेरी राह में दिखाई राह

मां की ममता का बयान तो इतिहास के समय से किया जा रहा है, लेकिन पिता का प्रेम थोड़ा अलग होता है । जैसा की हम सभी जानते हैं कि महिलाएं जहां अपने अनुभव बांटना पसंद करती हैं, वहीं पुरूष थोड़े अलग होते हैं।

लगभग हर बच्चे के लिए पिता उसका रोल माडल होता है । फादर्स डे के दिन आप अपने पिता को उसकी दी हर एक सीख के लिए शुक्रिया अदा कर सकते हैं।

 अपने पिता को खुश रखने के लिए कुछ तकनीक अपना सकते हैं :

• आप अगर अपने पिता से दूर रहते हैं, तो फादर्स डे को यादगार बनाने के लिए आप अपने पिता से मिलने जा सकते हैं।
• हो सकता है आपके पिता की पसंद पुरानी सीडीज़ हों, जिनसे कि आप हमेशा झुंझलाते हों , इस बार अपने पिता को वो सीडी दें।
• समय के साथ हो सकता है आपको लगता हो कि आपके पिता आपकी बातों को समझना नहीं चाहते, ऐसे में पिता की सुनें।
• आप अपने पिता को कोई ऐसा उपहार भी दे सकते हैं, जिनकी कहानियां उन्होंने आपको सुनाईं हों।

जिस तरह से एक स्त्री के लिए पहली बार मां बनने का अनुभव खुशी, सुकून और जिम्मे़दारी जैसे बहुत से जस्बातों से भरा होता है, ठीक वैसा ही अनुभव होता है एक पुरूष का जब वह पिता बनता है।

एक पिता जब वह अपने अंश को जीव रूप में देखता है तो एक अच्छा पिता बनने की इच्छा उसमें स्वयं ही आ जाती है। हालांकि मां की तुलना में पिता कई बातों में पीछे रह जाता है, उसका प्रेम आपको हर पल कुछ नया सिखाता है, चाहे पहली बार उंगली पकड़ कर चलना सीखने की बात हो या अच्छे करियर तक पहुंचने का सवाल हो।

कुछ ऐसे टिप्स जिससे कि आप अच्छे पिता बन सकते हैं :

• बच्चे को हर बात पर ना टोकें।
• अपने बच्चे की तुलना दूसरों से ना करें।
• हो सकता है आपके बच्चे की आदतों से आपको लगता हो कि वो बिगड़ रहा है, ऐसे में उसे समझने का प्रयास करें।fathersday